The Queens of Distraction

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“I know exactly what I need to do, but I just can’t get myself to do it”
“If I’m so smart, why do I feel so dumb?
“Why do the simplest things seem so hard for me?”
“Why can’t I get my act together?”


Sound like you? Have you ever felt this way?

If so, you aren’t alone. The online Queens of Distraction group coaching program offers you a safe haven, a safe place where you will learn tips and strategies and (finally) find comfort in being understood.


  • Are you embarrassed to have people over because of the clutter?  
  • Are you tired of paying penalty fees because your bills are always late?
  • Are you embarrassed when your child’s school papers never make it back with your signature?
  • Did you turn down a last-minute invitation because you have no clean clothes to wear?
  • Do you get criticized for being oversensitive because you get overwhelmed easily by noise, commotion, itchy clothes, perfume and even emotions?
  • Do you have piles, piles everywhere?
  • Have you felt out of step and misunderstood your whole life and just never knew why?

As a Queen of Distraction member, you will learn strategies and get support on:

Getting Paperwork Done on Time
Having Meals on the Table Every Night
Getting Through Laundry Piles
Keeping Up with Projects and Chores
… and More!

Help Is Here!

If you are sick and tired of the piles, the fire drills, the cereal for dinner, the old food in the car, the late notes, the missed opportunities, we will help you get things done, connect with others who “get it,” and learn new skills.  You’ll finally be in charge of your ADHD. Terry and your Fellow Queens will help you rise above the mess, the frustration, and the roadblocks and keep you accountable to get things done.

Join this exclusive, private online coaching group where you have access to Terry’s support while connecting with other women with ADHD — all in a secret, private, members-only room on Facebook, using text-based communication.

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  • “Imagine a place where you could be yourself. A place with accountability and support. A place where you don’t have to hide or feel ashamed of your ADHD habits. A place that celebrates the best in you and that helps you deal with the worst. That place is Terry’s Queens of Distraction group! There you’ll find encouragement and understanding, along with needed accountability. It’s nice to not feel so alone with this thing we call ADHD!”

  • “As a mom with ADD, I wanted to let you know that your books, column and website have been a godsend to me. I really appreciate your honesty and candor. You have helped me to see my “differences” in a new light and appreciate the energy and creative spirit of my daughter.”

  • How much worse would it be if I didn’t know what having ADD was like! So I think it’s great that people have someplace to go where they can get the support they need, and remember that we don’t really mean to be difficult.

  • Just discovered your site and was astounded!!! It’s perfect and I for one thank you most sincerely for your profoundly unique and valuable service.

  • I feel like another little bit of me has been unburdened knowing there are others who are so very like me. The relief that comes with that knowledge is wonderful…Anyway, thank you! I’m off to make my very own special to-do list right now!

  • You make me feel better about myself. Thanks for that and here’s to you: Cheers!

  • I just joined Queens of Distraction yesterday. I got to be on the chat last night and I’m not sure I can describe what a nice feeling it was to be chatting with people who..get me and vice versa. I’m looking forward to getting to know you!!! I have been on tele classes, I’ve had coaching but the experience of relatedness and being heard from several people was amazing.


Join the Queens of Distraction and work with me and your peers to knock out the problems that trip you up every day. Watch the video to learn exactly how the group works.

How It Works

We meet in an exclusive, private Facebook group only our members can access. We work together via text-based communication, just like on a regular Facebook page. Once you join, you’ll get all the Queens of Distraction programs, plus free access to our 24/7 support chat. For less than the cost of ONE hour with a coach or professional organizer, you can have 6 months of healthy, comprehensive support with one of the country’s leading experts in ADHD.  

Monday Madness To-Do List Assignment

One clear, short, do-able task to start your Monday off on a productive foot. No decisions, no waffling: just get the assignment, get it done and have a confident Monday. Your fellow Queens will be there to cheer you on and share a celebratory 5 minutes with our royal feet up.

Wednesday: Procrastinator’s Workshop

One hour a week to focus on a nagging task that’s been hanging over your head. You pick what’s bugging you most or let Terry guide you so you don’t get stuck on a wheel-spinning session of indecision. It’s always more fun to work together, so join your fellow Queens and celebrate your accomplishments! We meet from 12 noon – 1pm EST.

Thursdays with Terry

Spend an hour with Queen Bee Terry and your fellow Queens online, chatting about all things ADD. There is a new topic every week. Get help when you need it, or benefit yourself and others by offering help. Unplug from the world that doesn’t get it or get you, and connect with a group of women who do get it. Special bonus: Watch for special ADHD expert guests dropping in! We meet from 9pm-10pm EST.

Accountability Club

Work with another queen to help you get things done.

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How the Queens of Distraction Group Works

Our private, exclusive group meets on Facebook in a safe, secret page that only members can access. We work together via text-based communication, just like on a regular Facebook page. Once you join, you will get all the Queens of Distraction programs, free access to our 24/7 support chat room ,plus discounts on products. For less than the cost of ONE hour with a coach or professional organizer, you can have 6 months of healthy, comprehensive support with one of the country’s leading experts in ADHD.   

What are you waiting for? Join today and become a queen for a lifetime!

Terms & Conditions for Queens of Distraction Group

Please read before completing order:

I agree to pay The Queens of Distraction for a 6 month recurring subscription. After payment is received, I will be given access to the exclusive, private Queens of Distraction Facebook group via a personal invitation sent by email.

I acknowledge that it can take up to 24 hours to receive my invitation to gain full access to the group and will do my best to be patient. However, if more than 24 hours passes, I will check my spam folder. If I still don’t see the invitation, I will email  My membership will begin when I have full access to the group.

I understand that this is a recurring subscription so that I don’t have to deal with remembering to renew, or deal with a ton of email reminders from the Queens of Distraction. I will receive notification 7-10 days before my credit card or Paypal account will be charged.  If I do not choose to renew, I can simply cancel by contacting prior to renewal.

I also understand I have 7 days from the time of payment to cancel my membership by emailing

Refunds after that will not be issued under any circumstances. Refunds may be subject to a $25.00 administration fee.

I understand that I can choose to use my current Facebook account to join the Queens of Distraction, or I can open a separate Facebook account and use an alias or nickname if I’d prefer to keep my name private.

Please note that although this is a private/secret Facebook page that cannot be searched by Google or other search engines, and which cannot be accessed by non-members, we cannot 100% guarantee privacy if Facebook should change its privacy policies. For more information on Facebook’s secret group policies, see

** I agree not to discuss names or discussions that can identify any Queens of Distraction outside of the group.

DISCLAIMER: The Queens of Distraction group is designed for coaching and educational purposes only and does not render medical advice or professional services. The information provided here should not be used for the purposes of diagnosing or treating a medical or psychiatric illness.  It is not intended to be a substitute for professional care. If you have or suspect you may have a health or psychiatric problem, you should consult your health care provider or call 911 if you are in a medical or psychiatric crisis.
Terry Matlen,, The Queens Of Distraction program and any of its contractors and employees cannot be held responsible for the use of the information provided. The views discussed in the group are not necessarily endorsed or supported by Terry Matlen and should not be considered as medical advice.

By registering for the Queens of Distraction Group and subscribing in PayPal, you are accepting and agreeing to the Terms & Conditions outlined here.

Enroll in the group by subscribing through Paypal using the “Subscribe” button below. You are setting up recurring payments, but you can cancelled at any time.

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